How can we know that our Partner, Boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse is no longer in love with Me?
This is one question that screams and plead for answers. I don’t think there is anything more emotional wrecking than been in a relationship, with someone who plainly does not love you back. It is better you deal with heart break, than stay in a relationship, thinking your partner loves you, but does not share the same mutual feeling with you.
It is so sad to see, that several people are making the mistake, thinking that initial connection and infatuation are in the same level with love. This is one of the biggest reason, why several relationship are breaking up today. This single reason is the reason why many relationships today, break up faster than they are formed.
Here are a few signs you aren’t really in love as you though.
6 signs Your S.O/Partner is Not in Love With You
1. Embarrassed By Your Partner
When you noticed, that you are constantly embarrassed by your partner in public, it means you’re not in love with them. You might love the idea that you are identify with them, but deep down, you simply don’t love your partner.
When you notice that you do not like to step out in public with your partner, and you are constantly embarrassed by anything they do or say when you both go out for an event. If you truly love your partner, you’ll be more amused than embarrassed at them.
You should differentiate between Amused and Embarrassed.
2. Self Conviction.
This is another sign that you don’t love your partner. Studies have shown, that if you don’t love someone as much as you thought, you’ll keep trying to convince yourself you like that person. You can care for the opposite $ex in a deep and personal way, but it doesn’t mean you are in-love with this person.
If you are in this situation or know of anyone in this situation, who are trying to always convince themselves they are really in love using different means with hope it’ll really be true. Then you are not in love as you thought.
3. Start Hating that Habit You Once Loved?
DO you really need any sign or indicator that you simply should let go? This is a sure sign, you no longer love that person you once loved, or thought you love.
If your crush, became a lover, or you start dating someone you admired alot, but noticed that you start getting annoyed by their once cute habits? then you surely don’t love them anymore.
If you find yourself in this type or kind of situation, it is a clear sign you were infatuated with your partner. They haven’t changed, it’s just you that changed because you no longer love them anymore.
4. Scared of Been Alone
This is another reason several people are still in loveless relationship today. They are simply scared of been alone! So they basically patch things up with their partners, even though they knew there is no love in the relationship anymore.
One of the reason people continue staying in a relationship there is no love, is that they are scared of being alone: People live in denial and claim they are in-love when they really aren’t. And like i said above, they are scared of ending up alone and for this singular reason, they will actually do everything it takes to have someone beside them including pretending to be in love.
5. Living in A Fantasy World
This is one place, Teens, Young Men and Women are making mistakes in the 21st century. They are actually making the huge mistake of building a fantasy world in their mind.
One reason which will keep you hooked in a relationship that there is no love, is living in a fantasy world and you constantly look out for second options. Honestly, it is okay for you to have wondering eyes or fantasize about some things, but only for a short while. But if it’s excess then you really aren’t head over heels with your partner.
You are dreaming them to be what you want, NOT who they really are. This is a huge indicator that you are not in love with your partner, but want something, someone better.
6. Ever Think Of Your Partner?
How many times do you think of your partner daily? If you are always thinking of your partner every day, thinking about them in a lovely way, then it means you Are TRULY AND REALLY in love with them. As the relationship grows older, it gets better because you’ll still think about them, and it really doesn’t matter how far apart you both are.
But once you think less of your partner daily, sometimes even forgetting about them, or compare them with someone else, wishing they are that guy in the office, that sexy lady across the street, then you aren’t in love, you are just fooling yourself.
Lastly, one of the major and biggest sign that YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER, is when you are always thinking everything is about you. This is for narcissists and selfish people, who are always thinking about themselves.
Yeah we know, it is always a load of trouble loving someone else. They may feel something but it’ll be hard to love completely because of their nature. But the truth is this: “A self-absorbed person isn’t really in love”
Now, using this signs, are you truly in Love with your partner?
Have you ever noticed this signs?
Then now is the right time to make the hard decision, that will shape your future, no matter the heart break or pain it may cause, but take the right decision today, and live for a better tomorrow.